How To Fix A Broken Relationship Starting With These 5 Simple Tips To Win Your Ex Back

Published: 19th July 2009
Views: N/A

We are all mindful that relationships can be delicate bonds that need to be nurtured and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to thrive. Unfortunately, break ups do take place, and they are nerve wracking, stressful, and can be very heartbreaking.

Apparently, one of the most influential ways that you can actually fix a broken relationship involves putting your ex in an interesting predicament! One of the best tactics to patch things up is by showing your ex how important you are, and were, to them. So here are 5 tips to achieve that...

1 - Although it's hard, try to minimize communication - Closing the doors of communication may possibly appear counterintuitive since your main focus is to rekindle things, never the less it is one of the most essential steps when trying to win back your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and permit him or her to simmer for a little while devoid of any contact. This should allow your ex to clear his or her mind and notice how valuable your relationship was to them.

2 - Try to be strong - "No one needs the needy". This saying applies very well when it comes

to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, beseeching, clinging, or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex perceive that you have moved on just fine without them by acting brave and moving on. Once you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.

3 - Become flexible - Do not be coming on strong with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their stuff up by a specific date. Be flexible, be patient, become a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be taken aback when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to renew the lines of communication that were not there when the break up occurred.

4 - This one's essential, get the heck out! - This is no time for you to be on your own. Get in touch with your other friends and get out of the house. Develop a social set of contacts and have the benefit of some entertainment in your life. You don't have to go out with, or even give attention to the opposite sex, never the less, you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be healing and therapeutic for you, but it will also help prove to your ex that they gave up a gem.

5 - Finally, simply be yourself - There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to start with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they fell in love with you to start with. This renewed awareness of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

Report this article Ask About This Article

More to Explore